Question: Very Private! Girls only! How bad is this! Please Answer!?

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Answer #1:

if you dont want it, avoid him and tell if its really bad :D

Answer #2:

let him know you feel uncomfortable about his matter
and tell somebody if it dont stop
he shouldnt be doing anythiing to you that makes you feel unconfortable

Answer #3:

He's much, much older than you, and he knows what he's doing.
It's completely inappropriate!
You're a very young girl, and you probably don't see how bad this really is.
You're friends are kind of right, but don't freak out, be very cautious around him, he's much older..
You must avoid him, and please, be careful.
I'd advise you to tell someone just to be safe, you have no idea what could happen.

Answer #4:

If you want to keep something private don't post it on the internet.

Answer #5:

dang girl u got it hard... act flirty if they bring it up and if they start doin it again... tell em dude im ur cuz not ur ragdoll or sumthin... and if u get bigger i guess u could say tell ur cuz or sum1 and c wut they say

Answer #6:

I doubt Quinton would rape you the next time you see each other.
Keep some space from him and lay low for a while. If he come on to you, say something to him.

Answer #7:

Well, you should tell em you feel uncomfortable, no one has right to touch you unless you want to, especially cause he much older than you. If they don't stop or they are being rude to you, you should talk to someone older. They are in that age now and they are boys but, again, NO ONE HAS RIGHT TO TOUCH YOU IF YOU DON'T WANT TO BE TOUCHED. So my advice is to stay out of them if you think they might do something and talk to someone.

Answer #8:

All you can do is protect yourself by NEVER putting yourself in a situation where you are alone with him, and especially NOT in a locked room.

Answer #9:

hey if quinton lives in utah i know him

Answer #10:

ok first of all Calm down. There is definitely something not right here. You're cousins should not be doing this. If you are scared about seeing him again tell a parent and stay away from him, you're friends might have exaggerated but are worried for you, be careful. Because you agreed to get the back scratches he might think that it would be ok to do more the next time he see's you. Its clear by locking you both in a room at the back of the house that he does not want anyone to find out about this. I am definitely not trying to scare you but I would try telling one of you're parents about what happened they should understand and help you by keeping an eye on him or telling him to stop. I hope this is useful. It's not right what he did, so be careful and I'm sorry because I can't convince you that he might not try something again.

Answer #11:

It is okay that you can't say no. Nothing is wrong with you. He is older and is manipulating you. He has crossed lines that NO man has a right to do without your consent, let alone a relative. Tell a trusted adult that is where you are. Give them the post if you can't talk.. If you can't tell mom or dad tell a school consular. Your friends are right to freak out. He is grooming you, going a little farther each time. Your silence gives him power and he is counting on it. I don't care how nice he may act or whatever. He wanted you alone in a locked room. he has made inappropriate comments.That is messed up. Get help, you posted for help and we aren't there. Please, please please tell an adult that is there. I'm begging you. You are only 12 and need to be brave. This is a VERY dangerous situation. Please don't minimize this. TELL now!





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