Question: In desperate need of advice. Long story so I really appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it. Thank you?

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Answer #1:

She doesn't sound like a great friend. I'd hang out with her less, and just send her a message saying that you're available if she ever wants to talk face-to-face. Then the ball is in her court, but don't wait around wondering if she'll ever come to you. Just live your life and if she shows up you can settle your differences and maybe start hanging out again. But I wouldn't become close with her again.

As for your ex, did you lie about why you broke up with him? If you did, that was wrong on your part, and I hope you apologized.

Answer #2:

She is not your friend. She's merely using you when she needs you. I used to have a friend that was EXACTLY like that. She only talked to me when she needed me and when she didn't need something, she would tell everyone horrible, untrue things. If I were you I would just end the friendship. Tell her that you're not going to put up with her doing this to you. If she wants to talk, then it's your decision to allow her to talk to you and try to mend the friendship or just move on. Either way, you really just need to let her know that you;re fed up with her attitude.





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